i have learned a lot in my life and have gone through some experiences that i would never care to share with anyone ~ well ~ mostly because people are judgemental. but i will tell you this and i know it for a fact ~ you can say until you are blue in the face that if you are ever faced with (fill in the blank here) you know for sure xyz is what you would do and abc is what you would not do. well, i am here to tell you ~ don't be so sure of yourself ~ because it just might be that abc is what you do and then, omg, you have some real soul searching to do.
in light of these experiences of mine i have to say that i try my best never to look at a situation and say "i would never do that, say that", etc. believe me ~ you never know until you are right there in the middle of it what you will really do ~ so in the future ~ just love everyone like jesus and keep your judgements to yourself and i will hope that you never have to eat your words.